Relationship……a lot is discussed on this over the years, and currently it is been discussed with more dimensions added to it………

Why the relationships are built……..? Are they develop or they are been crafted……? Does it depend on the psychology of a person, which keeps on changing, or depends on the surrounding of a person, or it depends on the dreams one follows……….??????........One can keep on exploring the reasons or logic behind the development/crafting of a Relationship……….

So, Relations are the basic need of a human being, so broadly it falls under “Human is a Social Animal” concept……..can some of you comment on “Whether more relations means Selfishness ( also want to reconfirm that Selfishness is a Broad Spectrum Word…..)Or does it mean Selflessness……..?????” Here, we don’t consider blood relations or relations between husband & wife…….they are more real and a lot is been debated/discussed about…….

The concern is for the Relationship we build, or we craft, or we develop, is normally based on our need, our requirement, our dreams………so are these all relationships falls under the category of Selfishness????

An example of some Politicians…….it is an established fact about the category of Relationship. But if we take an example of a person, who is deeply involved with noble cause of service to society who are not been the part of the main stream. He must be having a Dream to Change, a Dream to Create…….and to follow his dream, to make it a reality, he must have developed Relations with Like minded People, who also must have shared the same Dream…….Is this Selfishness for the group who is working for a noble cause, and the Selflessness for the People who are benefited out of this work……?

Let us take an example of Friends whose relationships are oxygen to blood. And the Friends on Networking Sites, who are always waiting for you to sign in, or always comment on your thoughts or whims. And the Friends whom we meet at alumni functions, and we exchange the contact information too, and we contact them again at the next alumni function. All such Relationship has a motive - innocent may be many a times. If such relations are broken, it upsets; but it does not hurt. But such Relations are important to life…..it helps you to explore self, to rejuvenate, to understand the others; which ultimately build the self.

Keeping, Refreshing, Maintaining such relations are again a broad spectrum selfishness…….?

I know, the reactions to this can be too harsh from my friends on/off with FB/Orkut or likewise networking sites…..

I really wish to have opinions that, Are we Selfish to an Innocent Cause….….?????